Dear Lisa:

Like I wrote in my last post to you, “I will repeat back to you, as I did on this post, what you express”, and so, I am repeating what you shared in your three posts of yesterday:

This is what you shared, what you believe: Men are selfish, they only love themselves. They place women into two categories: The Worthy (“the worthies”) and the Unworthy (“the unworthies”). Women in both categories are not allowed to speak their minds, to challenge the men. If women in the Worthy category challenge men, men will respond by removing them from the Worthy category and placing them in the Unworthy category.

Men recycle the Unworthy and treat them like they are nothing. They show concern and take care of women in the Worthy category, but show no concern and no caring to women in the Unworthy category. Men expect women in the Unworthy category not only to never challenge them, but also to never challenge the women in the Worthy category.

Men have placed you, Lisa, in the Unworthy category. The placement was done a long time ago, when you were a girl, even though you were “a pretty, talented, bright girl”. Unexplainably, you don’t know why, boys have placed in the Unworthy category, a category you have been stuck in your whole life.

Unlike other women in the Unworthy category, you speak your mind, you challenge men and you challenge women in the Worthy category. For that you are punished by the men, eternally dismissed, and attacked by the women in the Worthy category. Because you challenge men and those women, you are made out to be a villain, a horrible, horrible woman.

anita