H…What Anita, Eliana, and Mina say is solid. I cannot imagine myself adding to what they said. I will however, offer this that I hope you consider. As I grew older, I too kept looking for love. That search was fraught with disappointments and hurt. But that happened for only one reason. I was searching for something, love, that others have defined. I thought that what they found was behind door number 3, or where the big wheel landed on the spin. A pattern developed. I noticed that I accepted their definition of love and had to seek it out only to be disappointed and hurt. I got confused and found myself thinking wtf, what am I missing. Then the light went on. I would only get lost in going down the road that others took to find love. I realized that what love is, is what I defined it to be, not others. In doing that, I found out where to look, inside myself. When I did, it was like my heart asking me what took me so long to look there. When you are trying to find love by looking where other people have searched, you will perhaps miss the mark. It has always been inside you my friend. Do go to where others have gone, go inside your heart and soul and you shall find love.

Pearce