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Sarah
Your relationship is “normal”, based on a conversation I recently had with a councillor…she said first yes, honeymoon stage, but than as one gets comfortable, the butterflies of when you see the other person goes away, or aren’t intensified as much…that’s normal. As long as you respect each other, have a great true friendship (that’s a good base). I think you started off great by not just being attracted to him but what was inside him attracted you to him. It’s sounds like you have great openness to talk which is another good base. I personally think because the honeymoon stage is over you are reguessing and over analyzing things too much. Sounds like you have a great guy. Not one relationship out there will always have you in butterflies all the time. It sounds like there is more good to this relationship than to ever question it. My personal advice is don’t over analyze ….that’s when you make a mountain out of a mole hill…I do that sometimes.
Macy