Hi Mina,

You say that you don’t have any personal dreams. You can always dream! Decide on what is most important to you and create steps that will allow you to achieve it. Move closer toward that goal each day and take the time to appreciate the feeling of progress. You say you want to start a family and become a housewife. What type of partner do you want? Where would you be most likely to meet that person? Then, how can you become the type of person who you love, who a partner would love? I just read in an article that the greatest inheritance parents can pass on to a child is a happy relationship. Do you think you could be in a relationship that could survive 50 or 60 years of your child’s life in a way that is only good for him or her right now? If not, what do you still need to work on?

And you are only 19! I think a lot of people on this board would do almost anything to be nineteen again. You have so much time to settle down. Instead of stressing on what is missing, love being nineteen (but also be careful, too)! Go find the guy of your dreams and create the life you want. Focus on all the possibilities!