Dear Shawna:

My advice:

1. Do what you can do so that he doesn’t drive, that he loses his driving license so that he doesn’t drink and drive and endanger the lives of any passengers riding with him or other drivers and pedestrians on the roads.

2. See to it that you do not have another child with him.

3. Plan and execute a plan to live separately from him so to protect your two children from the distress caused by him drinking and living with him. The kids need a peaceful, safe home free of fighting and distress, as much as possible.

I hope you post again.

anita