Hi Harold,

Two things are going on here.

1. Even if the second girl never existed, the first girl would still have a tough character and not like texts or phone calls. That is just her personality.

2. You are indeed paying for choosing the other girl first. This one will NOT be second choice. Nor will she chase a guy or be all accommodating for him. That too, is her nature.

Your best bet is to keep trying, but be patient about it and don’t take things personally. If that is too hard, you should move on.

Best,

Inky