Jeff,

What Dawn said is true. I used to hate being “alone” or “lonely” I would get out of one relationship and frantically look and find a “rebound” relationship. However, it would not last. Men could sense that. They could somehow see that “I needed a man in my life to complete me” or to make me happy, and they would run for the hills. It never works.

Finally I got fed up, and started doing things outside of myself and my “need” for relationships. I started becoming happy with being alone. I kept telling myself I would be okay being alone, many people are and are very happy. Then something happened. A few years later, I was having a great time at a grocery store parking lot having people signing petitions for animal welfare. I was “in the moment” happy, that is when men gravitated towards me. I found men talking to me, asking me out, and that day in the parking lot, I met a man that became a relationship. When you are happy on the inside, happy being single, that’s when women will gravitate toward you.