Dawn,

If it were me in your situation, I could not forgive something like that. Especially after you had found out the woman was married. To me, that is completely disrespectful and is unforgiveable. You are not married and you don’t have any children so cutting the ties early with him won’t be as difficult. I would however think differently if you had been married, children and were with each other quite sometime. I think in that case it would be counseling and a lot of work on both ends of the marriage. You don’t deserve that…. you deserve so much more. I wouldn’t give him the time of day after what he had done. I do however wish you the best and hope you are able to figure out what you want for your future. Good luck!