I understand, all of this, and I’m not sure I said this in my last post, started after Nigel (my eldest brother) became estranged from us. He began pushing us harder and harder. And there was a time where my sister Naomi (the one who felt like Rhys and Callum got all the attention growing up) just over 2 and a half years ago had called the police (she was 20 at the time, and she was living with us again because she had been kicked out of University, a University she felt that my Dad practically forced her into.) I can also attest to this, as my Dad has said on various occasions that University is the only place we should be going after College, and is very hostile if you mention any other plans you have besides going to University. She had been kicked out because her friend had been killed in a car crash earlier in the year and she eventually felt like her course (Psychology I think) was becoming too hard. She almost never left her room and my parents main gripe is that she “never did any chores” while she lived there. Because of how hostile my Dad could be, she didn’t feel as if she could talk to him about moving out. The day she called the police, she had an argument with my Mum about something Nigel had said about Naomi. I remember Naomi, who was in tears at this point, saying “Well you didn’t need to say anything did you?” and my mum telling her to “Shut the f*ck up!” I was then awoken maybe an hour and a half later to my Dad saying Naomi had called the police. I guess what I’m trying to say is he seems to have gotten harsher and harsher over the years.