Another thing that I wanted to get off my chest is I have trouble letting go of things. Every time I get to a point where I say “They’re just doing the best they can with what they have” or “I can’t change what happened”,there’s a part of me that, especially when it comes to the first statement, tells me that I’m being arrogant. I often have no answer to this and I am right back where I started ; creating scenarios where I am the victim and getting angry about things that have already happened and I cannot change.