Dear lost_star:

You wrote: “He showed himself to be consistent in his words and actions throughout the relationship so I have a lot of trust in him.”- that is very promising, that you noticed that he was consistent and that he was.

As a con to possibly resuming a relationship with him, you wrote: “I am afraid it will end up stressing him more”-

How did your words and actions stress him before, when you were in a relationship with him?

anita