Hi Mary899,

You can analyze this, till you are blue in the face, but these are very toxic people. They are narcisists, gossipers, perfectionists and overachiever. They only care about themselves, and find other people They can find who are like them to “add to their clique”. They were most likely raised like this, by parents who themselves were raised to be this way. Critical, judgemental, belittling. Stay as far away from these women. Have no contact at all with them. If you see them, you can give them a brief smile, but move on your way. Don’t make small talk with them. If they want to talk to you, pretend you have a call to make it you have a cell phone with you, or tell them you have somewhere you have to be. These women are still in Junior High School mentality. You are better than this. Make friends with people who bring you sunshine, not clouds, positive people who lift you up, happy people, secure and optimistic. Stay far away from these little girls.