Dear Eliana

I spoke to her over the phone about three of four times before I started dating my current gf and she told me that she just couldnt take the lies anymore. she admitted to me that the reason she started seeing the guy right after me was to get over me and that it really messed her up mentally and she shouldnt have done it. she thought that after all I put her through and that she thought she found the one but she was wrong. Every time we spoke over the phone we spoke for hours sometimes. we both laughed a good bit and cried a bit and I think I did get closure and we continued to talk and then like I mentioned previously we went separate ways.

Im not sure about that right now. After reading everyone’s replies I have to agree with anita, I am in an unhealthy situation right now.