Hi,

I broke up with my boyfriend two days ago. I am 37 and he is 45. We spent 3-4 month together. We were ok together, no stress, both are doing well with out lives and independent, very practical relationship as we both were at the age that did’t need drama. He is very nice and loyal person. He has few priorities in his life and i was completely ok with that. Even, i started involving and liking his goals. But I want happiness, love in my life which i never felt from him. He never talked about us, he always talk about him and what he wants. He being very closed to his mom and talked to them 2-3 times a day, sharing everything with her and sometime he said i am doing this because my mom thinks this way.. something like that started scaring me. That made me feel like if he is like this now then what will be the situation after few years. I started getting worried.

As usual, he came in evening I made dinner, we eat together. I told him that its not working out. He sounds little angry and left.   But then i felt i made a mistake, i didn’t even gave him a hint what i have been thinking. . I never got him a chance to work on anything. I should have told him, he might not aware of anything. He hardly had a girlfriend and he might don’t know how to treat a woman..

I need help.. what should I do…