This man in no way, is ready for a commited, stable, relationship..so many reasons and numerous red flags. 1. You both only texted, and never spoke on the phone. 2. He is very unstable, and unreliable making you always confused and in doubt. No relationship, no matter now much you like someone can survive this. 3. He is cruel and disrespectful of you. Telling you that it is your anniversary, and he is having a surprise restaurant, but then laughs and says it’s for a business colleague, this man sounds like a sociopath, enjoying making people have doubts, telling them to “see a shrink” lashing out at small things. 4. He never invited you to his place, made you dinner, never really made any attempt at romance other than “make out sessions” at your place, not boyfriend material. 5. Always being sick, yet always taking you to walks in “crappy weather”. Couldn’t take you in his car when the weather was bad out. 6. Not following through when you were in the hospital, not caring to ask how you were doing, caring more about “a concert instead” 7. I honestly don’t believe he went to an emergency room, and don’t think you do either. 8. Not caring enough to get you a rock for a souvenir that you really wanted. 9. When you got confused about his hiking plans, as anyone would, he again lashed out and became verbally abusive saying “don’t be so dramatic”. I could go on. Thank your lucky stars you are rid of this creep. Please don’t get back with him. This man is very toxic.