Why did you break up with your boy-friend? As the pastor said, keep faith. I once had a break up of my own, and I can feel what you are saying, there were endless cries.. and I could understand what they meant when they said that you “break your heart”. However, I was not in a healthy relationship, he was not the worst, but I was not in a healthy relationship. It took me time to actually leave, but when I did, it took lots of time to move on as well. I ended up doing some other mistakes from which I learned a lot. I cannot say that I have found my purpose in life, but neither can we say that having a boy-friend/man will help us find our purpose in life. Only we can do that for ourselves, and I think that it is a long journey with all of its ups and downs. All I can say though, is that time has passed, I am super happy that I am not in the same relationship, and am very happy to have grown more. I do not want him or anything that has to do with him, although I would not wish him harm. Having said this, I am not connected anymore, not in a good way and neither in a bad way. It’s just that the ties has been cut free. So, to cut a long story short, life WILL GET BETTER, you will turn back and see that things were not as difficult or important as you thought they were. I am in another relationship, I do not think that I am where I am supposed to be neither, and I am confused myself about it. However, I know one thing for sure, he is 100% better than my previous one, and although I am not where I think I should be, I do feel that lots of improvements have been done. And this relationship has helped in other ways. If nothing, I now at least know what it means to have a guy who treats you with respect. Again, I don’t think that perhaps it is my place, because there are some problems regarding mental and emotional connection, which is always making me very confused. However, I can say one thing for sure, that life did move on, that I am in a better state, and that there is a beautiful reason to live for. xxx