Hello Anita, thank you for saying hello. Let’s see I’m always looking after others I work in a school with students who have emotional and behavioural issues. I’m naturally a carer and always have been it’s my greatest strength and my weakness. I attract people in me who need to talk positive and the negative.

my mum says if I had a ten pound note and it was my last I’d give it away if I felt someone needed it more then me. I do not see this as a problem most of the time. However it can be draining sometimes, which I do recognise. The bit about me is that sometimes I get lost and my roles as mum, teacher etc are there. I love being these things but sometimes I need to be just me as I am now – when I’m on my own without expectation.

i know my expectations are self imposed unless it’s work when I know generally what I need to do even here I do a lot of different roles within work. I have expectations of me and I’d say more realistic expectations of others.

Im seeing being here as me time, where I can connect with others. I use to visit a site years ago which was magic a place to talk and just be. It ceased to exist although I do keep in touch with some people who are now friends off line