Dear Vincente:

In your original post you wrote: “To this day I still can’t explain the exactly why we are not together” and in your second post you wrote: “I was the one who broke up, I was feeling unhappy and miserable at that time, and it shocked her SO MUCH at that time”

My question is: why did you break up with her, that is, why were you unhappy and miserable in the relationship?

And… why was she shocked so much at the time; was she not aware of your unhappiness and misery in the relationship?

anita