Hi Cal,

I strongly believe nothing will come out of this meeting between your wife and this other guy.

But what is important that once this is done and dusted, you guys talk and take marital therapy to address what led to this situation and how to put this behind and start again with renewed trust.

marroages cannot be thrown away like that – both of you need to stay strong, your wife in meeting this guy and you in waiting it out and then work on the root cause – may be family systems therapy etc.

all the best!

K