Dear Leocube:

Earlier this year you wrote about how in elementary school you had several maids or babysitters come and go from your life, that you were “close to all of them so when each of them were fired, (you) always cried a lot”. When on 5th grade another maid was fired and you cried, your parents made fun of your crying and you never cried since. You wrote: “from that point on, I felt like I need to disassociate from people so I don’t feel sad if they happen to be gone again.”

The doll will not leave you, nor will she make fun of you if you happen to cry, or if you manage to never cry again, she will not make fun of you if you feel sad.

Following are quotes from your current post and my input:

“As a kid, I’ve always dreamed of being the lone wolf”- As a kid you were a lone wolf already, alone.

” I feel like they (your parents)  have seen sides of me that no one else has and if I could change things, I never would have revealed those parts of me to them.”- I think they saw you crying in fifth grade, making fun of you for crying, and that is the side of you that you wish they didn’t see.

You wrote: “My family are great people, anyone would be happy to have them”- not true, not anyone:. I wouldn’t.

anita