Hello Lost Star!

I am very happy to hear from you (again) and thank you so so much for writing such a long and meaningful reply to me. I appreciate it and I do agree that we have a connection just based on our small and short interaction. I am looking forward to talk to you more in the future. It means a lot to me that you are reaching out to me and sharing your amazing insight and story as well.

I will go through what you have written, especially the important part :

You wrote : “But that is not so my dear Mina. His inability to be in a committed relationship at this point in time reflects nothing on your worthiness. He is not rejecting you – he just cannot be in a relationship now.”

I understand this concept. But the thing is, he did rejected me because we broke up NOT because he cannot be in a relationship but because I DROVE him and made him feels very distressed about his life. I used to be the one that would make his days better after a long and tiring day – but after a while – my ex boyfriend realises that me being his girlfriend was not actually helping him but was burdening him.

Even if he isn’t moving college or going to the army – will he still date me? if the answers is no it means that my ex boyfriend did reject me. I have talked about this with Anita a few days ago, you can check. The real reason why my ex broke up with me was because he got very discouraged by me.

It is true that the fact that my ex boyfriend rejected me crushed me very hard. I already have rejection issues starting with my mother but I cannot believe that the person that I love the most in the world is rejecting me as well. I am having a hard time accepting it.

I would love to hear your thoughts.

-Mina