Dear Tom:

You asked: “Should I reach out again in a few days and see if she is ok or wait to see if she reaches out to me?” I would reach out to her if I was you, in a few days. Sending her a message in a few days after a good date doesn’t feel too needy of a move.

You asked: “should I still speak to other people or not?” Yes, I would consider dating others and go about it, if I was you because the two of you did not discuss exclusivity and the dating relationship is far from being solid.

anita