Dear Emma:

The fact that he paid for travel back to Australia, encouraged you to quit your job so to return to Australia with him, then had a short term something with his retail job co-worker, canceled the trip back .. all this is impulsive, rushing to resolve distress any which way, without forethought, without rational thinking. This impulsive behavior creates a mess out of his life and of the lives of those closely involved with him, and that was you.

anita