Anita,

“I am thinking students are not likely to talk about their stress, they are just doing their best to ignore it and keep their focus on the studying, knowing they have no option but to keep going, study and study. Just like you feel there is no option, no way out.”

This is 100 percent correct.

Everybody is having a hard time here, trying to be #1 but at the end of the day all we can do is try our best and just study.

“At this very point I have better understanding of why your ex boyfriend broke up the relationship, the pressure to succeed academically is just too intense to allow a love relationship. No, he didn’t reject you. He ejected you from his overwhelming life.”

So happy to read this from you, Anita.

You can now imagine how his parents felt when he came to them and told them that he wanted to change university?

Gyunnie is having a very hard time as well, he threw away our college to go to another college (another SKY university, if you wonder which university that he is moving into) but at this point, everything seems unclear and there is NO guarantee that things will get better for him once he is a new student there.

I expressed this to him, and he understand this concern as well but he promised that he will try to do harder than he did in our university – and he will definitely not join any kind of student council. He will only focus on his social and study life.

But, Anita, I do not understand – why can’t Gyunnie try harder HERE in our university?

I have a lot of thoughts regarding that.

And yes, you can refer him to Gyunnie as well.

It is actually a nickname that I use but talking to you about him for 3 months here … I feel like you also know my Gyunnie.

You deserve to call him that as well. Because the Gyunnie that you know is the Gyunnie that was described by someone who loved him very much.

You saw him through my eyes and perspectives.

You understand him.

and I know exactly what he will say to you knowing how supporting you have been on his reason and struggles :

he is saying thank you.

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I am sorry for sounding kind of emotional … I just miss him.

-Mina