I am not ashamed of masturbating,  I use it as stress release alot of the time.

My husband and I both do not like thinking of other people while doing this. This is where we’ve drawn the line. We both feel it’s like cheating.

Very rarely do other people pop into my head. But it happened recently and I feel bad. I wasn’t thinking of that person in a sexual way. But I went to pleasure my self, and tried getting in the mood and suddenly an acquaintance ( who I had seen that day) popped into my head all weird.

And I don’t think of him in a sexual way at all. I’m not attracted to him

O just don’t understand why my mind decided to throw in this image of my friend while I was trying to get in the mood.