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Hi Ceebee,
Why are we as women always apologizing? It sounds like you were truthful. He kept bringing up sex again and again, thus objectifying you, and you kept responding. And now you want to apologize? It sounds like he actually deserved what you said to him! Yes, even the !@#$head remark. After all, he had his !@#$ in his head, as sex was all he could think about!
Listen, this is what you do: Don’t contact him. If he texts you, perhaps respond. But DON’T apologize. Then if he brings up sex again, don’t respond. Let the text hang. Even if he changes the subject, don’t respond. Or, just bypass all that and block his number.
Good Luck,
Inky