Hi struggling,

I’m glad to hear you talked to him about it. I’m also glad to hear that you’re seeking your own counseling. I encourage you to be as supportive of him as possible while setting your own boundaries. When he is sarcastic and it hurts your feelings, let him know, in the moment if possible, that you feel hurt by his words. Communication is the only possible solution for your problems, so continue to communicate with him and encourage him to communicate back. Continue to suggest counseling, I suspect it could help you guys a lot.

Good luck!