Hi DM,

Wow, this guy has two women, one at home and is constantly there and another who flies over to see him a few times a year! In his lazy mind, why should he do anything? You are doing all the work, and the other girl who offers nothing but his presence means he doesn’t have a chance to get lonely and thus not have to work on his relationship with you.

You have to admit, this guy isn’t very mature. If you’re going to have a long distance relationship it should be with someone who’s already established and can just as easily fly over to see you!

The relationship was as successful as it was ever going to be. Seven years is nothing to sneeze at. But, time for an upgrade!

Good Luck!

Inky