Hi DM,

I felt sad when reading your post. I too, have been in LDR’s. They have unfortunately never worked out. Too much distance, doubting, uncertainty, guessing, anxiety. It’s not worth it. Especially after reading what this man is putting you through. Sounds like he is having all the fun. Well, no more. Make him work for you. It’s you or the other girl. Make him fight and work for you. However, I think you should find someone local. A non-player, someone who makes You number 1, their first priority. You deserve better.