Dear Claire:

When you met him, it was your impression that he was “most sincere person” you had ever met. First impressions, or initial impressions are often incorrect. This is why we should evaluate people over time.

You wrote that he doesn’t feel like he did anything wrong. That does not mean that indeed he did nothing wrong. If you have the tendency and practice to doubt yourself and c0nsider the possibility that you did wrong, and he has the tendency and practice to entertain no such possibility, then a relationship between the two of you will continue to be about you trying to prove to an untrustworthy person that you are… trustworthy.

anita