Yes, & those are my reasons for bringing this to the table tonight.
If we brought a child into the world & both had sleepless nights & he continued to be in this, or another stressful job, how would our relationship handle that? I can’t be the carrier.

His anxiety is ok as far as I have noticed. It only seems to be around his work situation that recently everything has took a slight tumble. His parents are very defensive & argumentative (like most lol) & he tries to keep out of the stress with them, but they reel him in, as they do me, so this adds to his stress. I want to tell him to man up, but don’t want to be harsh lol