Hi Andy,

I read your whole story and feel awful for all that you’ve gone through. The way that you described your relationship with your Indian ex girlfriend, sounds to me like her heart was not fully committed to you and your needs. She was not there when you lost your dad and you couldn’t take family vacation together- this is not a good fit! What do you think has changed? I mean once a person shows you who they are, you ought to believe them no? Also, why not focus on this amazing woman who is by your side right now? To me, you are emotionally elsewhere and that is sad. She doesn’t deserve that(your new lady friend). In order for you to move on and enjoy your time with your new lady, you need to let your past go. From what I read, you seemed to really have loved the Indian lady but it didn’t work out for a reason. Trust the journey and don’t look back!

I wish you all the best!