Hi,

happy first post!

my thoughts would be along the lines of the quote ‘you often regret what you don’t do, rather than what you do do’ and whilst in all situations this may not be the case, i think it may apply in this situation.

my advice would be try not to plan how the conversation will go too much, just go with your gut and say what comes naturally to you- you can’t go  far wrong being true to yourself.

it could be they are just nervous coming to accept their feelings and it could of been your proposal the first time could of sparked off the internal searching so she feels she can confide in you.  Likely they are just at a difficult transition period in their life and having you to talk to and be by her side is great- she is lucky to have you. I would just go with your heart and hear her out. after all what’s the worst that can happen? whether she did reach for your hand or not, the feelings are still there and she may need you as a friend right now.

best of luck! Xx