Dear Gagan:

I wish you had an answer, or that you were willing to explore the reason for your prior confidence in not wanting a relationship with her beyond the one you had, why you encouraged her to meet this current man. That reason that you are not aware of, will not disappear for lack of awareness and is likely to direct your behavior again, in the future.

Even if you got back with her, you may withdraw again… for the same reason.

anita