Dear Victoria:

If I was you I would do whatever it takes to move far away from the parents, your father and his partner, currently. And far away from your mother as well. If I was you, no plan would be good enough if it meant living with either your father or your mother. No plan will be good enough if remaining physically close with either was part of the plan.

If and when you move to Ireland, there will be difficulties and challenges there, for you. It will not be a heavenly experience possible only in a dream.

anita