Hi Ben!

Welcome to the forum.

I think the time to take a steep forward in a relationship, especially a big step like moving in, is when things are going well, and you’re happy with where you are and where the relationship is going. I think when there is doubt and uncertainty, its time to scale back, reevaluate and see if you’re compatible before moving forward together.

Two possible questions to explore in your situation are what caused you to feel like you were losing the spark ( whether it fizzled out naturally or did something lead to you losing interest, if so, what was it, is it likely to happen again), and whether your partner is working on his anger issues and what he’s doing to work on them. If you wish to continue with the relationship I would suggest exploring these areas, and then moving forward not by moving in together directly, but starting to see each other again slowly and evaluating if there’s something there that’s worth investing time and effort in.

Best of luck!

M