Dear Gigi:

“In therapy, neither one of us is screaming or fighting”, you wrote. That is wonderful, isn’t it, to not scream and fight. That way you have a chance to hear and be heard. This would be a healthy relationship for you to have, in the future, one without screaming and fighting, one where you are heard.

I don’t know what his current girlfriend is thinking about you. Perhaps it makes you feel special, to be the ex you read about, the ex that current girlfriends worry about.

anita