Dear Inky,

I do wonder why he wants therapy now. We talked for  whole year post breakup and it was dramatic and painful. In January, I asked him -begged him- to stop contacting me. I would get bombarded daily for a whole year. And I mean, a good day was a 20 email day.

I am sad to think expecting oarents don’t go to grief therapy. I lost my baby on a car accident at 5 months gestation, and all the dreams, hopes, and love vanished with him.  I grieve every day, and I felt abandoned. Perhaps that is what the therapy is, a way to atone in the end, now that he has found love.