Hi Nightflower,

I do find a few things about this odd, the things that I found odd was, you’ve been with him nearly two years but haven’t met his mother? I understand she lives in a different country but two years is a long time & I’d be keen to do that, & I’m sure my boyfriend would too? & the fact you feel unable to express your emotions to him without worrying how he would take it? You’ve been together two years, you should well & truly be able to communicate & understand each other by now, shouldn’t you?
I’m not sure any of us can help you as such, I believe the only person/people who can resolve this would be you & your boyfriend? I get that you may feel uncomfortable talking to him & don’t want to keep bringing it up, but what happens if in years time you have a child & need to communicate something about that child but you feel uncomfortable or uncertain of his reaction? Do you go through life keeping things in, feeling resentful towards him & anxious in yourself, all for this man?

What do you think?