Dear dawn101:

Reads like he is concerned about you thinking that he is “so ‘unintelligent’ so dumb” (t0 not be able to successfully hide an affair, if he had one) and not about you thinking that he is disloyal to you.

What is your understanding of his response: pointing to the problem being his alleged inability to successfully hide an affair and not the alleged affair itself? Is it to divert attention from the real issue or is he generally concerned with being considered unintelligent, or is it something else, I wonder

anita