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November 9, 2017 at 10:32 am
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Dear Tom:
Correct, but note: an anxious person cannot be permanently comforted by another. It takes a long time and a lot of individual work- as well as a safe, loving relationship- to heal from and manage anxiety.
And so, when she told you that only you comfort her, it means to me, that you comforted her well temporarily. If you got back together she would still need to heal and manage her anxiety.
Did I clarify my input to you?
anita
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