Dear MariTapatia:

You asked: “What is it that I am missing here to be able to fully move on from this feeling I get and fully let go?”

Here is a possibility of what you are missing here: at the end of your first paragraph you wrote about the ended relationship: “we did not wrong one another, we were just not meant to be.”

Then you wrote that one year after the breakup you had an altercation where “he said some very hurtful words to me” and later you mentioned “the animosity between us”-

what you may be missing is that the relationship didn’t end because it was “just not meant to be”, but because you did “wrong one another”.

Your thoughts?

anita