Dear Anita,

Yes, I know I am an honest person, but I overreact and overthink. This whole regret as well stems from such bad habits. Instead of simply excepting my feelings for her, I overcomplicated the things. It was really simple – She loved me tremendously and I loved her tremendously. I let it all go for no reason. In this case, I was just impulsive. Had I thought it all through, I would have not let her go. I make everything in my life into a drama. I hate that about myself. That is probably the reason I am single and miserable at 29.

But, I do not want to be this person. I want to grow and be happy so I can accept the next person that walks into my life.

Please help!

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