Dear Jen:

I think I am closer to understanding. You wrote in your original post: “when i finally gather the courage and force myself to leave, he comes round and then pursues me with all the love that i wanted while i am with him”- does this mean that when you broke up with him, he called you while he was in the office, during his work day, and that he answered your calls while in office? How did he come around at those times when you broke up with him?

anita