Hi,

I want to use this forum for help as I am very confused with my present relationship, the story goes like this :

I met her last year at our workplace, she liked me a lot so i was approached by her. After getting to know her I was also attracted to her and we came in a relationship 1 month later. But soon I got transferred to other city and our relationship became long distance. We meet once a while and are in touch over phone and video calls. My concern now is that I am confused regarding her, at one point I feel I love her and another time I feel no I just care for her. I don’t know what is going on with my life, one thing is for sure that I care for her very much, it is like I don’t think with my brain while she needs something, it just happens that I am ready to do that for her. But I have this constant feeling inside me that I don’t love her, I am very confused, on one hand i know she is a very innocent and pure hearted girl I don’t want to lose but then it is like i pretend to much for her to remain in my life. Please help, it is becoming a main reason for stress and i am unable to focus on my career which is very important too..

I don’t want to hurt her if this is not love, because she is very innocent and sweet. I cannot take a guilt.