Dear Anita,

I am not so close with my parents. As I was growing up, the flaws in their marriage became visible to me. My dad had an affair with another woman (which I believe he still have). My mom has always been reminding me to find a proper, honest, and loyal man in the future. She always say I should bear in mind that a man like my father is not worth it.

I and my siblings grew up seeing them fight. And up until now, I wonder if there is still love between them, because we cannot see it.