Hi NightFlower,

I love your post about being empowered & doing things with your friends & what happens, happens.

I think at the moment this is your best bet, by using this route. I’m sure you don’t mind me saying, but from what you have written, I’m not convinced this man wants a relationship or deeper connection with you. Please don’t take that, that you aren’t good enough, or that it is anything to do with you, I just don’t think he is ready or willing to give that part of himself out to you, or anyone.