I’m glad i helped someone with this post modalsoul. i always try to reassure my girlfriend it’s not an attraction problem. It might be a technique problem but if it is i will help her with that. I read a lot of guys don’t get off with “only” a handjob. It’s indeed really stressfull for a guy when it’s his first time with a girl. Also really nervous feeling, especially when you have a poor body image. I just hope it won’t get too big of an issue for us since i really want to get old with this girl and see a bright future ahead of us except this “little” problem.

VJ,

I don’t drink any alcohol and i don’t smoke and tobacco. i could improve myself on all the other points. I think i have a poor body image. Also it’s really stressfull since she is my first girl that i do this with Ever. I might need to come back on the no fap part, since i think its healthy to mastrubate sometimes. Just not as much as i did before. Maybe once every week or maybe even less. Like i said in the response to Modalsoul, maybe it’s the technique etc that she doesn’t use right and if so i will help her with that. I read it’s actually really hard to go off with “only” a handjob. I’m not finding excuses or blaming her, i am looking at the possibilities