Dear Henny:

You are welcome. Maybe later when you are calm you can re-read my first reply to you on this thread and respond to it then.

For now, you are anxious and focused on the question on the last two lines of your recent post. There is no way for me to know and it is very possible that he himself does not know. It is not that he wants to break up with you or needs time to rest. It could very well be both, that he is considering breaking up with you and is resting.

I wouldn’t pressure him yet again to tell him which one it is of the two, because it can very well be both. What do you communicate to him in your texting at this time and what are his responses?

anita