I think there are certain “signs” or feelings that something is not right that we cant quite understand and we beat ourselves up for feeling and having them in us. When we repeatedly get this feeling we have to pay attention to it for your happiness and her sake…. I think your first sign that you made the right decision is feeling relief – that is the most assuring feeling to know you made the correct choice. You were honest… remember time helps us understand and make things clearer. You will understand yourself and your choice and KNOW it was the right thing to do!!!! You were very brave and honest. Many persons are too scared to listen to their selves. I wish you good luck!!